I love homemaking, but decorating has always frustrated me. My mom always decorated all the bedrooms when I was at home (including mine), so I never had decorating experience during that time. When Billy and I got married, I learned that we had dramatically different styles. He’s Southern Living; I’m shabby vintage cottage. Some women feel that home decor is strictly their business and some men don’t care what their wives do with the house. As far as I am concerned, my husband lives here too and I want our home to be something he enjoys, especially because he does have specific preferences. However, I’ve never been able to figure out how to combine both our tastes to come up with something we are both comfortable with. To be honest, I have really felt at a loss as to how to decorate even close to “his way” because it feels so foreign. Result: for 10 years I really have not decorated much at all.
This weekend we went to the mall (once in a blue moon thing for us) and visited a couple of home goods stores that specialize in more ornate styles (ornate being a relative term–remember, I grew up on rustic country). I also took some time to peruse some beautiful home blogs that have an elegant feel. I finally decided that I’m just going to take the plunge and start decorating, even though I know it will be hit and miss until I figure it out. My goal is something like Southern Living traditional with a cottage twist.
For the next few days I’ve challenged myself to begin. The rules for this stage are simply that I have to use things I already own. I’m also beginning with a fairly neutral palette of taupes, creams, blacks, and whites with the goal of adding accents of color once I get the basics established. So far I’m cautiously having fun. I hope to post a few pictures soon and get input from some of you on whether I’m hitting the mark or not.